Today's focus is on the Jealous Baby Mama. The jealous bm is the chick that, even after the relationship is done, continues to hound the man during unnecessary situations. An unnecessary situation could be anything from out to dinner with your new girl or wife, or even when it's time to bury your bone. It's like these women have a clock embedded in them to disrupt the very nature of the "baby daddy". This phone call is absolutely about nothing concerning your child. It could involve her asking for some money, eventhough she get child support or even asking for sex on the low. These two things happen often with the Jealous Baby Mama.

Many men think that there is no way to deal with this bafoonery, but their is. #1 Don't answer, let it go to voicemail, if the call is that important she'll leave a message, or better yet she'll send a text and if the text has nothing to do with your youngster then "I'm busy right now, hit you later." should be your reply. As a man, you should never allow yourself to be sucked into the hole of Phantom Zone Pussy. This is the shit you almost cannot get away from, and it's only your fault. It can be dealt with. #2 Hit your bm before you go out to speak with your child and then let your bm know you will be unavailable until "whenever." You need to let her know what the lines of communication of at that very moment. Doing that will work if you stand your ground and not be a punk about it.

The Jealous Baby Mama, for the most part, knows that she is being a total ass, but in order to deal with the ratchet ass dudes she letting blow her out now, you may be the norm. The norm being comfort-ability and some type of appeal that she still has for you and instead of using it for good she uses it to be just as ratchet as the dudes that smashing every other day. As the man, if you take care of your child, you wear the pants and you need to let that be known in the most un-threatening possible, however being stern. She needs to understand that you love your child... PERIOD... Let you do you.

What about the guys that ain't shit??? What about the guys that don't pay child support??? I'll answer both these questions with questions. Men learn to be good, so what made you have a baby with this guy that ain't shit? I'm sure you saw the signs. Before you got pregnant, why were you only at his house once a week? Why did you never go out? If you did go out, it was to a cheap late night Hoyt's theater, then back to wherever you spreading those thighs. He doesn't pay child support cuz you ain't up on your shit or of course the exception, this dude refuses to work because of the threat of being garnished. Now that is what I call Bitch-Made, but also understand this could have been avoided by either strapping up or swallowing, the choice was yours. Take it from a man that has lived it personally and seen it a hell of a lot with friends and family. It's a dirty game, but you don't have to play.

To conclude, don't think that you have to be an ignorant broad to get attention from your ex/baby daddy. How bout this, talk to him, let him know how you feel. Stop going about things so ratchet and you'll be fine, hell, you might even get him back which seems to be the ultimate goal of the Jealous Baby Mama... You got questions or comments? Do what you do.